I think all the AC pumps are going to be audible, I have a hard time believing people when they say I have an AC pump and it is dead silent, no pump is silent including a red dragon.
DC are quieter, but with DC, quality is usually a bit more costly. The Vectra range are not silent, but they are quiet and the do not have the low frequency hum of AC, they make more of a whirring sound which is not piercing nor does it carry.
There are others, Jebao for example but I would recommend over sizing these as when run close to maximum they make noise.
These are the only brands I can comment on, I have at the moment, Sicce, NYOS, Eheim, Vectra, Jebao and an Aqua one pump at home. All my AC pumps hum, it is just how loud or how far the frequency will carry.
Maybe throttling an AC is the answer, but I have never tried this so cannot comment.