IMO:
1) I used a yellow tail damsel to cycle my 20 gallon but I donated him back to the LFS live rock tub once I was done lol
2) I noticed you said youre using prime for WCs...is that because youre using tapwater? If so....save yourself a lot of trouble and go out and buy an RODI system. Saves you time and headache later down the road. I use
http://www.drsfostersmith.com/product/prod_display.cfm?pcatid=26888
3) good idea with the bacteria, build up your nitrifying backteria.
4) other than hermit crabs....I dont like crabs for a CUC. Even then I put them in the sump where all the detritus accumulates. IMO crabs are only good for the job they do. Example: emeralds do great at eradicating bubble algae. Some people love crabs. I do not lol
5) for a 25 gallon CUC I have 4 nassarius snails (sp?), 4 astrea, 4 trochus, 2 cowrie, 3 red leg hermits (in sump).
6) I agree with Salty on the sand. I looooove small particle sand. With the bigger gravel/sand, you have to watch your poop buildup because it can wreak havoc if you stir it up without doing a WC. Vacuuming will be easy though for that size particle.
It sucks that he gave you the wrong advice about that-now youre battling from the get-go.
If youre ammonia is good, you at least have bacteria now. NitrITES Ive heard are worse for SW fish than nitrATES.
@saltyfilmfolks-true?
What do you call high nitrates? If you dont have any coral yet...I would think you can go up to 20-30 ish safely before you need to start worrying. Ive never had fish only though. My nitrates go between 5-10ppm.