You dont mix them together themselves, many if not the majority of esp newer tanks will easily have their demand met by adding kalk to your ato reservoir, if kalk starts not being able to keep up, start dosing 2 part in addition to running kalk in your ato. Because you will be meeting most the demand with kalk, you will only need to add a fraction of two part that other tanks using solely two part/not using kalkwasser.
there is no magic formula as every tanks demand rate will be different.
but there are good reef calculators to help figure out adjustments to tweak levels with two part
Accurate test kits are vital.
First, make sure levels of alk/cal/ mag are in the ideal range via waterchanges or two part additions, THEN add kalk to your ato reservoir, for the first week test every day or every other day to monitor how your alk/cal levels respond, if they dont change, kalk will be well enough on its own, down the road after your tank is packed with coral kalk may not be able to keep up, depending on factors like evaporation. Thats when the addition of two part may become necessary, or you can look into a calcium reactor.