Yeah it just is discouraging. Especially when I stay on top of all the maintenence and stuff. But my clowmfish are happy and all the inverts are happy. Haven't lost anything yet so I guess that's good.
I dont know if I can replace my rocks lol I don't know how I would do that. Someone reccomended getting a couple of small pieces of live rock and maybe some live rock rubble. And yeah I don't mind the hitchhikers. I have a few asterina starfish and a few bristle worms that came on the live rock that a friend gave me. I mean how long is this going to last woth my dry rock? Forever? Lol