So sorry to hear about your struggles. Some additional things to consider:
1. The local Co-op (pronounced "coop" to anyone not on the Prairies) has distilled water. You can use that.
2. Join the
Edmonton Saltwater Enthusiasts Facebook group for immediate help: it's a great group of people.
3. Get some berghia nudibrachs for your aiptasia problem from Mitchell at
New Dawn Aquaculture. He's a super, super guy and has excellent captive-bred fish as well. He's local for you and a great source.
4. Vaccum up your cyano. Dosing phyto -- slowly! -- will help. Neal at Marine Experience has big bottles of live culture for $20.
My Little Ocean is also local, and they will ship to you at a reduced cost since you're close to them.