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"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that don't work." - Thomas Edison


After a lifetime in the hobby, I can occasionally reflect back on some of the great successes that I’ve had...and on some of the many, many failures that I’ve been involved with! Failures aren’t that bad, really. In fact, their pretty darned helpful...As the sayings goes, “Nothing is ever wasted- it can always serve as an example of what NOT to do!”

I was thinking about my worst-ever reefing disasters, and, fortunately, there have not been all that many...However, the ones I have had have been notable...and educational!

My biggest mistakes came out of my own arrogance, really.

For example, I was going to be the ONE reefer to keep several Centropyge angels in his reef, including a Lemonpeel, Vrolicki, Coral Beauty, Flame Angel, and Bicolor! I really thought I could pull this off in a large reef with specialized aquascaping... Not only did this end with some predictable results (a lot of nice LPS corals getting snacked on), it resulted in 5 very ticked-off, very beaten up dwarf angels! Stupid...For some reason, I really thought that my “methodology” would pay off and that it could work...WRONG.

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But hey. I OWN it.

Or the time I tried to build my own protein skimmer...with a bad concept and cheap materials. Yeah, it didn’t work, and the resulting leaks and lack of functionality reflected my DIY skills! It was a good thought, but poor on the execution side. Completely unlike the Angelfish fiasco, which was a “lose-lose” proposition!

Or time I tried to make a continuous-feed brine shrimp hatcher...Do you know how LONG it takes to get brine shrimp eggs out of the water column in your reef? Long time. Enough said.

However, failing- and I mean this in the most literal sense- can actually be beneficial in so many ways, especially if you share your failures publicly. Right now, somewhere out in Reef-land, there is another reefer contemplating the same disaster-inevitable idea you did...

So imagine, for a moment, if you do a quick “confessional” here about your biggest reefing screw up, and he or she stumbles on it, and decides NOT to recreate your disaster. Think of the savings in money, frustration, and innocent animals’ lives...It’s all good. Failure makes you a more successful reefer- IF you learn from the mistake, and IF you share it with others!

So, don’t hide your failures. Trumpet them from the highest mountain. Run around, scream, share, yell at people if you must...But tell ‘em that you screwed something up...Tell them how, why, and what it was that you did to screw it up! Then laugh about it and feel better!


I’m working on a piece on the many screw-ups we’ve made here at UC. It’s actually kind of funny...Marketing blasphemy, you say? No. Not at all. Rather, it’s a living embodiment of practicing what we preach...We will all benefit from being human, being honest, and getting through our trials and tribulations in reefing together. We all have more to gain than to lose from sharing. Trust me.

So now, it’s confession time...What’s the biggest screwup- the worst mistake- that you’ve made in reefkeeping. Don’t be shy. Own it. Share it. Your failure will lead to others succeeding...so it wasn’t really a failure after all, right?

Right!

Stay Wet.

Scott Fellman
Unique Corals



 
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I moved my 75G tank after 3 years of being up. Started with all new water and new sand. Tank was cloudy so I made a judgement call that the corals would be better off in the buckets for a few hours while the sand settled. I should have just put them in the tank as I lost about 85% of my SPS that day... All corals grown from frags but many not shared within the local reef community so they were permanently gone with no way to get them back.
 
Biggest mistakes often come from arrogance.

"Hubris" is the old word for it. ;)

I think the problem we have collectively in this hobby is that a touch of hubris is probably required to do what we do....but it's hard for a lot of us (maybe all of us?) to "know when to say when" and adopt the conservative path.

"Nothing good happens fast in a reef." is the best motto our hobby has. If taken as a strategy (as intended), this motto inherently accounts for our fallibility, allowing for the crucial observation and learning phases of our experience. Anti-hubristic! LOL.

-Matt
 
I moved my 75G tank after 3 years of being up. Started with all new water and new sand. Tank was cloudy so I made a judgement call that the corals would be better off in the buckets for a few hours while the sand settled. I should have just put them in the tank as I lost about 85% of my SPS that day... All corals grown from frags but many not shared within the local reef community so they were permanently gone with no way to get them back.

A tough lesson...a tough call. But you learned to trust your initial thoughts, I'll bet! Thanks for sharing!

-Scott
 
"Hubris" is the old word for it. ;)

I think the problem we have collectively in this hobby is that a touch of hubris is probably required to do what we do....but it's hard for a lot of us (maybe all of us?) to "know when to say when" and adopt the conservative path.

"Nothing good happens fast in a reef." is the best motto our hobby has. If taken as a strategy (as intended), this motto inherently accounts for our fallibility, allowing for the crucial observation and learning phases of our experience. Anti-hubristic! LOL.

-Matt

Love it!

-Scott
 
Joined(pushed into)this hobby only at December 19-2010 with a 20g high tank. here is my confession:
1) put a yellow tang on a 20g so he developed itch out of stress. But I am from a country that sings a song called: we go to war to save a flower! So upgraded to 75g to save the fish and I am happy to report that fish got better.
2) noticed some green bubbles in my tank, bursted the bubble by poking it. Instantly reminded me of how fun it was to play with bubble wraps as kid(you laughing? Yeah have a laugh) so I continued to burst bubbles for few days. then....... Oh well.
Will add few more when I have time

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I started with a 5g for my Betta. Every week I faithfully poured out all the water and cleaned the gravel so it wouldn't look yucky. In chlorinated tap water. How that Betta lived as long as it did is a mystery to me. I'm so ashamed.
 
Recently, my yellow jaw goby that I'm trying to get out without pulling every piece of rock in the tank..

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I moved my 75G tank after 3 years of being up. Started with all new water and new sand. Tank was cloudy so I made a judgement call that the corals would be better off in the buckets for a few hours while the sand settled. I should have just put them in the tank as I lost about 85% of my SPS that day... All corals grown from frags but many not shared within the local reef community so they were permanently gone with no way to get them back.

Sorry to sidetrack, but I want to upgrade my system(my 110 to a 235 DT) , but am facing the issue you mentioned above. I am a lone soldier and would be doing everything myself. So I'm worried about being able to do it all in a single day. Is it possible?

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Sorry to sidetrack, but I want to upgrade my system(my 110 to a 235 DT) , but am facing the issue you mentioned above. I am a lone soldier and would be doing everything myself. So I'm worried about being able to do it all in a single day. Is it possible?

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Extremely difficult if you're making the water yourself. If you can get your LFS to deliver a load of saltwater, that helps. Create your own thread for tips - we've got plenty of them! :)
 
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Joined(pushed into)this hobby only at December 19-2010 with a 20g high tank. here is my confession:
1) put a yellow tang on a 20g so he developed itch out of stress. But I am from a country that sings a song called: we go to war to save a flower! So upgraded to 75g to save the fish and I am happy to report that fish got better.
2) noticed some green bubbles in my tank, bursted the bubble by poking it. Instantly reminded me of how fun it was to play with bubble wraps as kid(you laughing? Yeah have a laugh) so I continued to burst bubbles for few days. then....... Oh well.
Will add few more when I have time

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That's an awesome story! The trouble with Bubbles...LOL

Thanks for sharing!

-Scott
 
Joined(pushed into)this hobby only at December 19-2010 with a 20g high tank. here is my confession:
1) put a yellow tang on a 20g so he developed itch out of stress. But I am from a country that sings a song called: we go to war to save a flower! So upgraded to 75g to save the fish and I am happy to report that fish got better.
2) noticed some green bubbles in my tank, bursted the bubble by poking it. Instantly reminded me of how fun it was to play with bubble wraps as kid(you laughing? Yeah have a laugh) so I continued to burst bubbles for few days. then....... Oh well.
Will add few more when I have time

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Thanks for making me smile. I needed that right now. :')
 
I started with a 5g for my Betta. Every week I faithfully poured out all the water and cleaned the gravel so it wouldn't look yucky. In chlorinated tap water. How that Betta lived as long as it did is a mystery to me. I'm so ashamed.

Well, that Betta paved the way for a longtime hobby addiction, so it ain't all bad, right?

-Scott
 
Recently, my yellow jaw goby that I'm trying to get out without pulling every piece of rock in the tank..

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Ohh...I can relate...like pulling out 5 Centropyge from an aquascaped 225 reef...fun..

-Scott
 
Sorry to sidetrack, but I want to upgrade my system(my 110 to a 235 DT) , but am facing the issue you mentioned above. I am a lone soldier and would be doing everything myself. So I'm worried about being able to do it all in a single day. Is it possible?

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Agreed with Eienna- a tough job, but doable...! And you can always start a thread on this forum..In fact, we welcome our friends in the community to start threads on all sorts of coral related topics on our forum...Lots of talented people are on it all the time, so good help is readily available!

-Scott
 

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