As I have benefited greatly from searching old threads, I wanted to come back and update this one with an update, a few months later.
Based on some of the feedback here, I tried two approaches: Modifications to my quarantine system, and purchasing pre-quarantined fish.
Modifications to my quarantine procedure:
Essentially, this involved adding a powerhead and being more militant about weekly 25% water changes. Based on several widely-cited articles, I had assumed that an Aquaclear HOB filter would be sufficient for aeration and circulation of the 10G quarantine tank. I no longer think so, and suspect I had 'dead spots' and potential low oxygen levels before I added the powerhead.
Under my new approach, I successfully quarantined a yellow watchman goby. Unfortunately, Live Aquaria shipped me one with a bacterial mouth infection, but with rigorous dosing of Kanaplex I was able to stop the infection from spreading. Toby II has since moved into the display tank and is happily living with our pistol shrimp. His lower jaw still has a large portion eaten away, but it doesn't seem to affect his ability to eat, since he has been living in the DT (with no target feeding) for over a month now.
That said, I don't' think I will run my own quarantine again, because....
Buying Pre-Quarantined Fish:
Based on replies to this thread and elsewhere on this board, I contacted Elliott ant Marine Collectors. He seems to do business by phone and text, and doesn't reply to emails, which took me awhile to figure out. But my experience has been phenomenal. Elliott somehow has access to one of the main importers in LA, and is able to source seemingly any fish in a matter of a few days. He specializes in rarer fish, but (despite seeming a little incredulous that I wanted to use his service for relatively 'cheap' fish) was able to source everything on my stocking list, in the size and gender of my choosing. Prices were higher than LiveAquaria, but still surprisingly reasonable considering the effort required to quarantine these fish.
In my first order I received a melanurus wrasse, golden midas blenny, and helfrichi firefish. They were packed with more water than I have ever seen from an online seller, and immediately starting eating and continue to thrive over two months later. I currently have a one-spot foxface and a rhomboidalis wrasse in quarantine with Elliott, and will be receiving them early next week. My next (and semi-final) order will be a purple tang and three blue-green chromis, which I should receive some time in September. After I receive everything, I will post a final update!
Conclusion:
Going forward, I will be exclusively purchasing from Elliott. While I am now more confident in my quarantine system, it is too small for many fish I would like to introduce, and at the end of the day, too labour intensive for myself with a 7-week old baby, especially in consideration of the reasonable price Elliott charges for doing this for me.
I realize that Elliott doesn't do the 'full' 4-6 week quarantine that many on these boards recommend, but I don't want to let 'perfect' be the enemy of the 'good', or 'great' in this case.
Hopefully this is helpful to others in my position!