Kill them with kindness. I saying I now understand in a very literal sense.
Months of planning the new tank, using this forum to come up with the perfect stocking list, going nice and slow and then....
my wifes' cousin and his family decide they are going to surprise us with the best Christmas present ever, dropped off on Christmas Eve when we are getting ready to host 30 people for Christmas the next day.
I get a bucket with 3 bags, one with a coral beauty, a blue damsel and a yellow tang. I tried to explain the tank might not be ready for fish yet, these fish might not be great because they are aggressive but they were having none of it, guy at the store (I think petco but not sure as they would not say) told them these are great community fish and the tang was even in a tank with lots of other little fish, will look great for the party tomorrow they say.
Anyway, I couldn't be too rude as they meant well so long story short the fish stayed, but I was really really upset, yelling and screaming after they left but the wife insisted the fish go in as they were coming over the next day. She knew how mad about it I was but wanted the fish in as she did not want to stir up some old family drama. I told her if they had walked into a good LFS and asked for the three biggest a$$h0le fish that the 3 they would have given them. So I suck it up and acclimate the fish secretly hoping they would not make it. Fish go on and hide in the rocks, the foxface I had in was actually hanging out with tang for a bit so I'm thinking let's see what happens, worst case I can get rid of them after the holidays if they turn aggressive.
After everyone one is gone late the next day I try to get a good look at the fish, coral beauty has some kind bite mark or infection near his tail on one side and the tank has little white dots on him. Problem is no QT tank (is in the plan but not set up as I did not need it yet) and we are leaving for Vegas the next day so I leave it all as is and will worry about it when I return.
So we get back last night, the tank is covered in brown/red algae, rocks, glass sand, socks, sump. everything is brownish and slimy. Coral Beauty is gone, thinking she died and they cleanup crew did their thing so no body to be found but caused a massive nutrient spike. Tank still hiding int he rocks but looking like he has ich for sure and the damsel is out and about not being an butt yet but he's still young.
So now I need to figure out next steps, do I leave the tang and damsel in and hope they turn out to be OK health wise and aggression wise? If I do keep them can I wait out the ich on tang and hope it does not spread? Do I try and catch them both and tell wifes' cousins they all died?
I know they meant well but I am so mad when I think about the major headache they have caused me.
Tank is about 7 weeks old, had finished cycling, and had 2 chromis and a foxface added a few days before the "big surprise"
What would you guys recommend?