Too many opinions on this question I'm afraid. To answer your question though yes. You can have a reef tank without a skimmer. It isn't required. It is a tool, like other pieces of equipment, that you may or may not elect to use has part of your system. The key though is setting up your system such that it isn't needed. How many fish, surface area for bacteria, etc. It is all part of the puzzle. Three pages here and you see a lot of different opinions. Mine is no different. I've run a 40 breeder with out one and had great success. I've run two 29 gallon bio cubes again, with success. Over the years I merged them all together, added them to another 40 breeder, and added a skimmer. Then moved it to a 210 gallon with yet again another skimmer. I've also run a 100 gallon without one.
Vision, goal, plan, you can be successful. Search the net, favorite engine, and you will see many nice looking systems of all types without a skimmer. That isn't a myth, it is a fact. Now, if you want to say compare numbers of how many of one vs. the other...that is a different story. But to your question. Yes, you can get away with no skimmer if you plan accordingly.