For clarification here, the "deep sea"/"deep water" in question (in the articles I've listed) is 40-50m, so while it is relatively deep, many commonly kept fish and corals are regularly found in those depths (including Emperor Angelfish, Pacific Blue Tangs, Kuda Seahorses, Dwarf Lionfish, Marine Bettas, etc.).
To address the other points here:
1. The temperature typically isn't too drastically different at the above depths vs. surface depths (the Gulf of Mexico, for example drops from an average of 77F to 71F at 200 feet deep [~61m]),* and warm deep water (50m or deeper)** is so common with tropical cyclones that many places consider it a requirement;*** so the majority of species found at these depths would likely be fine at reef tank temps even without special acclimation care.
2. Since these depths still have many fish and corals in them, they'd probably do fine.
3. Since many species found at these depths are found in shallow waters too, they'd likely be able to adapt without issue.
As mentioned, there are some valid reasons for the price differences between aquarium LED's and grow light LED's (controllability, manufacturer bulk discounts from their wholesalers, etc.); whether the extra price is worth it due to the extra features provided, though, is a personal decision. (Personally, I agree with you that they're probably not worth it, but most here will likely disagree.)
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Why do Tropical Cyclones Require Sea Surface Temperatures of 26°C to Form? CHAN Chik-cheung It is a well known observation that sea surface temperatures of at least 26°C would favour the
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