I think I found my spark again.
I decided to move all my corals and fish out of my Nuvo Fusion 20 and into the 75g. I felt like the 20g has become a chore and it's really ugly; so I'm going to try to sell it. if it doesn't sell, I'm considering trying a fresh water planted tank for something different.
Adding the extra corals and fish into the 75g gave it more life. Now I want to look for a variety of toadstools to add. My clown goby, that I was concerned the 75g tank is too big, seems to be entirely amazed and probably thinks he's been released into the ocean, lol.
I am battling turf algae, so in my task of researching and finding ways to lower the phosphate, the act of buying turbo snails ignited my desire to shop around for more critters, which led me to a tuxedo urchin which I'll probably regret. I've become a bit more hands on with the tank, even gave it a 40% water change last week since it's been years (you can see my other thread of how disgusting the sump was lol). I took the time yesterday peeling off kenya trees and killing aptasia.
I've also been spending more time on the forums reading and even getting more involved which I think helped tremendously.
Again, I thank everyone that has posted and reached out to me via PMs, I really appreciate it and I feel the love here!