You are certainly free to form your opinion
I will offer mine:
I am not a new reefer, and my opinion based on 25+ years of experience is that "PAR" is not as important as many folks make it out to be.
Corals, if they grow, will grow out of that ideal spot that you picked using your par meter. They will shadow other corals, changing their "PAR" too.
As much as we want to think "PAR" means coral will grow, spectrum is more important, as is flow and a dozen other variables. That is why you will see beautiful coral under radically different spectrums, intensities and photo periods.
Most reasonably sized lights will provide "PAR" in a reasonable range as long as mounted at a reasonable height. Most corals will adapt to whatever conditions you place them in as long as you give them time to acclimate. Usually going from low light to high light is more of shock than going from high to low.... so put frags in low light and move them into higher light areas over a few days or weeks.
It really is that simple and I don't think "new" reefers need to worry about PAR outside of just using a reasonable sized fixture at a reasonable height for their aquarium. Such a combination is easy to find if one just looks at other people running similar setups or simply follows the manufacturers recommendations for the fixture.