If you're looking for a mentor someone local is the best. Honestly, if you want to learn hands on, you should volunteer at the Shedd Aquarium's reef area for a few months; I'm sure you'll learn a ton.
I've only kept SPS for a year, but I'd make a few observations:
1. your parameters -alk, ca, mg, nitrate, phosphate especially - have to be solid and under control. First, they have to be stable for a few months (weekly checking, I'd say) after setting up the tank. I would say that your denitrifying bacteria should be working well before you start keeping especially SPS
2. I would say your tank ought to have decent coralline growth - and that AFAIC is part of the algae cycle that's woefully little-explained to beginners. Basically, the tank should have gone through the nitrifiying stage, diatoms, cyano, GHA, and then finally starting decent coralline growth only after it's matured this far.
Note that most people start with dry rock these day, making steps #1 and #2 take months compared to using, say, Florida aquacultured rock. Using the latter cuts a lot of time, but does not make it zero Trying to keep nitrate and phosphate down, not having a lot of livestock, I have heard will make this process even longer with dry rock.
3. at the same time as #1 and #2, you need to have a decent amount of microscropic benthic life sustainably growing - pods, diatoms, all kinds of bacteria and stuff. There should be a some amount of DOC in the tank. A tank with no detectable nutrients I'm told can be hard on SPS, especially if the tank is new. (a tank that's had its initial blooms and spikes, which goes ultra low nutrients, and has a good amount of constant nutrient input and export is supposedly good for SPS).
I think I lost my first Pocillopora colony around the tank's 6 month mark due to the fact that my tank did not have #1-3. After six more months, my pocilloporae and other SPS (mostly acros) grow fine.
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4. Moreover, you have to dose something to keep things stable once you start having SPS and they start eating alkalintiy/Ca/Mg.. There are three basic methods I'm aware of - 1) kalk; 2) two part or variants like Triton, ATI essentials etc or 3) a calcium reactor. Pick one and stick with it. Two part is the easiest to set up, I believe, and I think the one most people go with. I've looked into thw other two but don't have any experience with them; however I don't have enough space or tank size to really justify the expense of a calcium reactor, IMO.
5. Your lighting makes a difference for some SPS. I had OK success with Kessils and pocillopora, Montipora Cap, Montipora digitata. But I always had shading and eventual problems with branching or tabling corals and the kessils.
I personally recommend, as a beginner light, T5s. Fixtures to fit most rimmed tanks are available cheap on the used market, and not much more expensive new 24", 36", and 48" T5 fixtures are available from Corallife (replace their bulbs with ATI, Giesemann, or other bulbs). This is I believe cheaper than even black box LEDs off ebay. If you want to pay more, ATI and Giesemann's fixtures are supposedly even better.
For your tank (standad 55 gallon?) I'd highly recommend one or (better) two corallife 48" T5 fixtures (you can get them on
amazon, or even most Petcos have this length in stock), and replace the bulbs with ATI blue or coral plus bulbs (either all ine kind, or a mix). Put them on a timer to automatically come on and off. If you want, get LED strip lighting to supplement them if you want to save money/have an actinic look; run the t5s like 6 hours a day and the LED strip light (solely for looks) the remaining time.
6. some people feel that allowing the detritius, feces, etc. of a well stocked tank is enough to feed their SPS, and feel supplemental feeding is unecessary. That may be true, but I think feeding helps. There are lots of good powdered coral foods. Scientific studies have show newly hatched brine shrimp to be the best food for pocillopora, and I'd imagine that applies to other SPS's as well. Hatching is not that hard, and possibly a wash compared to target feeding powdered food.
My $0.02.