I have always struggled with Nitrates, just can not keep them down and I have tried everything
Everything? Did you try basic active nitrogen management? Do you have a refuge, a bio-filter?
What may be your " struggle" with nitrates?
Shooting the messengers does not win wars.
An oversized skimmer may create a nutrient imbalance as a skimmer does not remove inorganic nutrients as ammonium and nitrate but continuously does remove part of the building materials needed to make use of the inorganic nutrients present and does this very selective. ref:
https://www.baharini.eu/baharini/doku.php?id=nl:makazi:het_water:filtratie:eiwitafschuimer
Nitrate is a usable nitrogen source and the level is easily managed as nitrate-nitrogen considered not valuable for the system is easily exported by using a bio-filter, for example, through an application of BADES ref:
https://www.baharini.eu/baharini/doku.php?id=nl:badess:start. Even without BADES, a simple nitrifying bio-filter may export +-16% of TAN, with BADES >60% . Those who claim a bio-filter produces nitrate and this would be a bad thing, what about TAN?
Import and export.
It all starts with proper cycling and conditioning the system.
Feeding, the food source used, feeding the end-users directly, or and indirectly, creating a food chain, using high or and low protein food, from marine origin, managing the food C/N ratio, Using nutrient modified F2 media in bio-filters and refugia for cultivating food or and for harvesting and export.
Managing growth rates by controlling the C/N ratio and the nitrogen source used ( organisms prefer ammonia-nitrogen and may grow +- 8X faster using ammonia-nitrogen instead of nitrate-nitrogen)
A skimmer, GAC, GFO etc.. influencing remineralization rates, the reproduction and availability of essential building materials.
Managing the preferred growth-limiting factor! Wich my opinion may never become phosphorus.
It all can be managed.
Managing nitrogen availability should never become a real problem.