It worked on mine. Your missing a few options.
1) Install a ball valve on the return pump and turn down the flow
2) Install a valve on the intake hole (the one I'm saying to make bigger) You would have to drill the hole to make the valve fit. Then it's adjustable.
There are options besides making the hole bigger. Adding more pipe is a crap shoot, there is no guarantee it will work because there are many factors that make your tank different from someone else. Also, installing a ball valve on the down flow into the sump is an easy way to cause the tank to overflow. It may look fine today, but if the return pump is adding water slightly more then the ball valve allowing it to enter into the sump, it will overflow. Installing material in the pipe can cause an overflow (if not today in the future).
In regards to simply making the hole bigger, don't use a huge drill bit. Find one the fits the hole sung and start with that one. You can also move the drill bit in a circle to make the hole a bit bigger than just using the drill bit straight in and out.
I put a valve on my return pump and dialed it back, the noise went away. I wanted more flow so I slowly increased the size of the hole. Noise gone. I use to be able to hear it in the connecting rooms and now it's perfect.
You asked what to do, there are the options. Good luck in whatever you decide.