Also playing into this if you are not getting thriving corals is not just water quality. You need the proper flow and light for the species. Plus the proper food. Corals do need food in the system.
If you are confident your parameters are in line and stable, I would play with lighting and flow a bit. Change one thing and a time and see how things improve/not improve. Feed your corals! Marine snow, phytoplankton, baby brine (artemia), other similar items.
Do you have any fish in the system? Corals do better with other animals.
Also consider the stocking of your tank. Is is too much? Can your filtration handle what you have? A 165 should be pretty stable, and lots of options of corals and fish.
It can be overwhelming seeing more established tanks and saying, maybe I want that, or that, or that. It is hard to narrow down what you like. That is why so many of us have multiple systems.

It is sooooo adicting! Even saying that, you do need to decide what makes you happy and what you want to see day in and out. Color, movement, active, peaceful, GBR, Caribbean, Red Sea, drop off, lagoon, reef face, all this will help you figure out what corals you really like.
For instance, I had sps for years. I loved them to some extent, but decided I wanted movement. I fell for gorgonia types. For all my research, I had no idea what I was in for keeping gorgs. Eventually, nothing is left in my tank except gorgs, leathers, mushrooms, and anemones. Well, turns out, I love nems! I never had them in my sps for fear of moving and damaging corals. Now I get all that and more.
However, because I love lps corals like favia, platys, scolys, etc I had to set up a 40g to house these favorites. Do I wish I could house them in one tank? YES! But, it cannot happen. Trust me, I tried.