Small update. Things seem to be turning around a bit (but I've said that before). Corrections I've made:
Raised salinity to 1.026. Bought a new Refract, the old one was off, but not by much. In all honesty, I probably didnt need a new one, but atleast I sleep better?
Started dosing some trace elements, I dose about half of what is called for, for now.
Bought a TDS meter, my RODI tests 0, so I'm going to hold off on installing the new Carbon, Sediment, and DI filters.
I actually added two more fish. I know this goes against some of the advice some have brought, but they are tiny clowns and I think my corals have benefitted from this.
Im still going to keep the skimmer offline. Chaeto is growing beautifully and seems to be keeping things in check. Im dealing with a little bit of GHA, but we'll see. There's a little cyano on the sandbed, but I'm not worried about that, its clearing up pretty quickly.
I raised the blue spectrum on my lighting by 10% and dropped the whites down 5%.
I increased the flow just a bit on both Jebao OW-25s.
So far, corals are happy. One acro continues to encrust, and im getting a tiny bit of PE. The Poci is exploding and looks fantastic. Zoas are fully open and growing as well, and have some new polyps of Grandis coming in. Duncans and euphyllia are doing beautifully as well. I wish the acans looked better, no matter what I do they're always closed.
So overall, looking good for the time being. If I had to sum up what my issues are/were, I suspect many of them have to do with nutrients (as loosely as we define that), with the other minor issues pointed out contributing to the bigger problem. Thanks for the help folks, truly.