On your first post you stated
"I think im getting to a point where i want to throw in the towel."
This little problem you have now, is nothing. Wait until you experience algae, cyano, bugs, parameter swings etc ....
This hobby is no joke.
Not being a jerk or anything, I went through the same thing, along with many other hobbyist out there.
If you can't handle it now with just a pump issue, you might want to reconsider taking up reefing.
If you decide to stay, enjoy this crazy roller coaster ride of a hobby.
Good Luck .