So here's kind of the crux of your problem: Your tank is barely 13" across in either dimension, and your chosen flow pump is a long-throw type pump (Assuming this is the pump:
CWP-5000); it has a very narrow cone of influence, like some of the Tunze models, so it pushes water far instead of wide. Moving it and repositioning it is only going to do so much, I think it's just too much for that tank, and ironically, you have it running at only 132gph. Try not to think of flow in strictly GPH terms, you could have a 300GPH flow pump that pushes water all the way to the end of a 4ft tank, and you could have one that barely pushes water 2 feet in the same tank. Flow pattern is probably much more important (especially for small tanks like yours). If you had a 3D printer you could make a diffuser to widen out the pattern, or you could try what vetteguy said and screen the back and limit its intake more. But you're already only running it at 132gph and it's killing your frogspawn... I personally still think running your return with an RFG might actually be enough flow, even for Acro's, but if you remain unconvinced, you could go two routes. Get a larger return (400GPH) provided your return plumbing can sustain that much flow, or go with something that has a wider gentler flow pattern like a Tunze Nano Stream 6040 (Bonus is, this pump can be rotated 360 degrees allowing it to shoot at the glass directly behind it if it's still too much flow).