I'm a Libra (I am far from an astrology chic), but stereo-typically, we are indecisive. Now I've been this way since birth, and although I'm certain it has nothing to do with being born at the end of September, it is fun to joke about. My biggest problem with being on this forum is myself. By nature, I'm an indecisive person. I read opinions, and then I read opposite opinions, and all seems confusing to me -- so I'm uncertain what is the right thing to do. I've decided today, that my decisions about my tank are my own. I'm no longer worrying about what is right, wrong, or who thinks ill of me. I'm making decisions on my own research and following people on this forum who's opinions I respect. I suddenly feel empowered. What I'm guessing is happening here, is that I'm moving out of "newbie" status and starting to form my own ideas based on what I have learned and experienced. This is an exciting new chapter in my personal reefing hobby. Also...thank you to everyone who has been ever so helpful.