I had a similar challenge - few month old tank, euphyllia did great for a month or so, then a few of them retracted and disappeared over the course of a few weeks. Some were fine, but not super happy looking. I chased a number of parameter tweaks and light and flow tweaks. None of it made intuitive sense since they were thriving at first, but like you, desperate to try anything. I think in the end all of that tweaking likely made things worse. As people have said, if these types of corals are happy, they can thrive in a wide variety of parameters, flow, and light but the key is that they aren’t constantly changing. My remaining ones finally came around with no significant changes and now they are thriving.
If I were to offer advice based on my limited experience, I would just leave them be while closely monitoring your params shooting for stability not some new values. Your corals could just be starving due to your 0 nutrients until recently. Keep phosphates and nitrates where you have them and they might just turn around over time on their own. I’ve had to daily dose phosphates since I started this tank. I finally got tired of doing it and put neophos on a dosing pump and test every couple of days. If you’re wondering if your lights are off, rent a par meter from a LFS or BRS. Don’t experiment by adjusting them repeatedly and hoping for quick results. You could end at the right place but the corals won’t respond in a timely manner due to the constant changes and likely will respond poorly initially. If you get a par meter and find your lights are too low or high, change them slowly over a matter of days and weeks, not overnight.
Also +1 on double checking your salinity, couldn’t hurt, and owning a refractometer is a solid choice to be sure. My refractometer is calibrated with the calibration solution and no other tool I’ve used has agreed with the calibrated refractometer.