Hello,
Now (I may get eggs thrown at me or worse a desk or two) but we are no longer in a friendly society. I mean just reading threads in here how many people have complained about vendors over who knows what? (I can’t keep track of them all). Our society has gone to the phase of everything is online because like myself I work crazy crazy amount of hours. When do I have time to go, oh yeah only after they are closed. So online vendors realize this and can pretty much do what they want because of how our society is.
Two examples my parents bought me a custom 425 gallon tank, and it’s been delayed twice. Each time they have called me and told me which is amazing and I’m so busy with work I don’t have time for it now anyway. But at the same time my parents paid out the nose for it so they probably don’t want us to cancel. This isn’t the reason I hardly ever order online, but because of how rude people can or will be to one. It’s not just our hobby, it’s (I mean dominos pizza for me just two days ago). So again, maybe we should look at the bigger pic and see if sadly our beloved hobby as fallen into the culture norm or (I don’t care, I’m allowed to be ride phase, or we don’t have to keep our promises).
My second example of I believe society is to blame rather than businesses is, I lol me (the girl who is extremely shy, and scared of her own shadow), was dumb enough to argue with a school principal (over if she had the power to change the law on cross walks because it was her school). Clearly she can’t and this was proved to her. Now I’m my argument yes I was polite, professional, and said nothing demeaning. But lol I was still banned from the school (two days later it was reversed by the superintendent) but still. The principal never even introduced herself as such, and she berated me the entire time. When did prinpals start acting this way, where have I been?
Granted yes (I was wrong to publicly question her), but I was still nice about it. I feel bad for the op, that shouldn’t happen and most of us, always say I would cancel etc. In honesty most of us do not, so by then this becomes the norm for people to act.
I think the only way sadly is to bluntly inform people this is not okay. But that’s a risk because like myself I was nice even and was banned for voicing my thoughts ( kinda why I’m shy). But like the principal, any business can just ban someone if they feel remotely offended. (Yes not all people are polite but makes my overall point even stronger) that we as society have become this.
The only way it can change is if we all of us change in society as a whole. Until then we are going to (maybe not all etc) but more than most will have a horrible experience. Another example is like my niece wanted a song off of a Disney soundtrack just one, but had to buy the whole bloody album. Our society had become rude and only about money. It’s a sad time, one honestly why I’m only on line here is because at least people here still have the good culture in them.