Got your PM, figured I'd just respond here now.
A small mantis would do well once everything stabilizes. They have a ton of personality, are incredibly intelligent, and easily trained to know who you are, when you normally feed them, and what you feed them with. I'd recommend not hand feeding them lol
Just give it a rock to live in (it will carve out a tunnel system through the rock and make a mortar to patch up other holes) and keep the water sorta clean (since they're so messy nutrients will build up fast, but add lots of macro and shouldn't be an issue) and one will do great! For mine, he feeds on copepods, baby mollies, and any food that makes its way to the sump, and occasionally I will grab a few dwarf ceriths from my display tank and toss to him to let him punch things. He also uses the broken shells to help fortify his house.
As long as you don't try to hand feed one, it shouldn't try and attack your hand if you have to stick it in for something, but mine has still snapped at me a few times, so you always have to be on your guard. Luckily, the mantids recommended for nano tanks stay pretty small (usually around 4") and won't do too much damage if they get you. There are several available from KP Aquatics, at
Sea Life Inc.