Many years ago, when my tank was in the basement, I had a floor drain in the area where my salt mixing was done. Hey, it worked... never made a mess

Your solution may be as simple as that!
I picked up a 1/4" solenoid valve from AirWaterIce. $15. Put it inline between my RO/DI and my ATO reservoir. Wired it to a 110vac plug, and plugged it into a timer that enables water flow for only 1.5 hours, on Tuesday and Friday. I then put a NC float switch, high and dry, at the very top of my ATO reservoir, and passed the solenoid power cable through it. There is a float valve in the reservoir itself. As long as the float valve doesn't fail, water stops at the desired fill level. If it does fail, the backup float switch will cut power to the solenoid, cutting off the water before it overflows. If BOTH fail, damage is limited to what the RO/DI can produce in an hour and a half, which isn't much more than the ATO reservoir can contain anyway. I put a cheap battery powered water alarm on the floor next to the ATO reservoir, just in case.
From the reservoir to the tank? Tunze ATO. Optical switch, backed up by a mechanical switch, with _that_ backed up by a timer.
I feel pretty safe, and I don't have to worry about the inefficiency and 'TDS Creep' that can occur when an RO/DI is not allowed to run for more than a minute or so at a time.