Here is a question to you. When you look at you tank, (honestly) what is the first think you think of? Is it about money spent or money to be made? Or is it a feeling of content and interest in the beauty if a living organism. Neither answer is wrong! It is just your way of looking at the hobby!
What I think is happening in this recent outrage of coral and prices. We as hobbyist have lost touch with the interest in keeping a biotope and have instead became infatuated in keeping up with the latest and greatest. Some individuals in this hobby have allowed themselves to be transformed into someone who buys corals to top the other guy and to show it of in your latest tank thread. I am not against having a nice collection of beautiful corals, just do it within the means of your budget and enjoyment. Sometimes I sit and watch my wife look at my tank and point out how amazing a single detail of a coral or a fish is, trust me this doesn’t happen that much, and it brings back a feeling of simple enjoyment of the hobby again.
Don’t get mad at the guy who can afford a million dollar house just be glad that you have a home! Reef with in your budget, or have the patience to wait till your turn to buy your dream piece!
Back to my enjoyment of the hobby, Ian
Honestly, I get home from work, and literally go through my entire tank, looking to see how everyhting is doing, growing, and behaving before I even take the groceries out of my car LOL. Every time I look at my fish and my corals, they make me smile, for the pure enjoyment of successfully keeping/growing them, and making them color up as much as they can. I never want that to change, for me personally, anyways.
Couldn't have said it any better and I echo both of your sentiments here. I think people just tend to forget that this is a HOBBY.
Hobby - An activity or interest pursued outside one's regular occupation and engaged in primarily for pleasure.
If you get pleasure out of going out and finding the latest and greatest corals to add to your collection, regardless of price, then that is what makes this a hobby for you and more power to you. If you relish in having just two "run of the mill" clownfish and a couple of stalks of Xenia, then go for it. The key is to love what you have. I think a lot of the negativity lately stems from the "gotta keep up with the Jones' mentality."
I think it's very hard not to get caught up in all of the "latest and greatest" trends, especially when you're first starting out in this hobby. I've only been in this hobby for around 4 years and it never ceases to amaze me how trends come and go (remember when Nucs, PDs were $50/polyp). When I was first starting out, I was really really proud that I was finally keeping a saltwater tank, something that had been a dream of mine since I was waist high to a grasshopper. I got so much enjoyment out of learning from others, meeting reefers from all over the country, and just enjoying what I could afford.
There was a time last year where, due to a TON of different pests and circumstances, I almost called it quits. It wasn't until some local reefers and my wife stepped in and asked me why. They asked me why I enjoyed the hobby, why I would want to get out, and whether I would miss it.
In the end, I have found that I get a lot more enjoyment out of cherishing the pieces that I have, trading for some that catch my eye, and helping others out where possible. Would I buy more expensive coral and equipment if I had the funds, maybe. Would that make me enjoy the hobby even more, probably not.
For me, I make sure to sit down at least daily, if possible, just to stare at the tank for 10-15 minutes. It's amazing how much enjoyment you can find in just observing what you have, not thinking about "what I should add next," "what I wish would look better," etc. I get a lot of personal joy out of this hobby....I love having my own little slice of the reef in my own home that I can enjoy.
-Adam