@Lateral72 - my wife would totally agree that I am pretty good at short sight deflections! Oh well, you prob nailed that one!
Not suggesting to go the path of PETA and not suggesting to practice poor husbandry. For myself, I keep proper sized fish in my tank and go as far to have peaceful co inhabitants for a stress free environment as much as possible. One false move though such as adding one more blennie and I could be toast.
Do not enjoy the hobby when I see someone "reprimand" someone for the occasional fish/tank size mistake. A super huge turn off in a difficult, all too tempting, quite expensive hobby. Simply suggest point fire where your fire will have the most impact. To me the most impact is not wasting words on the end consumer, not enough bang for your buck to make a difference. that's why I pose the question: where does the responsibility lie?
If one put a tang underneath a bunch of flounder in a bucket on a fishing pier recently caught, who would know the difference...no one.
If someone walks in a LFS and sees a small sailfish tang in a 10 gal tank who can blame them buying one and put them into a 29 gal biocube as an impulse buy. That person prob thinks they're giving that sailfin a slice of heaven!
At the very least LFS should sell these fish out of appropriately sized tanks to at least give the suggestion they belong in a bigger tank.
Then there is always the "do your research" crutch. I get it, I do it, but it irks me:
BEFORE one jumps in:
How many species of fish should one research?
How much chemistry should one study?
How much should I know about lighting before jumping in?
Flow? oh that too!
Oh man, water changes every week? Conflicting info now, maybe we can balance chemistry water maybe without water changes? How much research research here before jumping in?
Corals? bummer....they attack each other too? ok, another 400,000 species to research, sigh
and size of fish and it relates to tank size
and which ones can coexist?
and everything I read is conflicting
shoot, have to separate the real science for the anecdotal evidence too.
and some people " advise all too seriously" how people take care of things on forums.....sigh
plus I missed the other 12,000 things one should ponder, ooops I mean research, before jumping in
After 20 yrs of research only, then maybe one should jump in? Need a timeline here, pls
Then, one joins a club as a good suggestion and hears on lecture called LARS. Sounds cool, excited! Oops, ( Lazy A** reefer syndrome) now one is being called a lazy a** reefer because one does not thoroughly clean the plumbing thoroughly occassionally causing another set of unsuspecting badness all because of negligence? another 500 bucks to clean the plumbing I guess.
What's next......"why you're a loser reefer" lecture?
Geesh, there is enough to deal with in life. But I have turned into a research scientist, to one day become a coral fragging budding entrepeneur, in the meanwhile occasionally getting lectured I suck as a hobbyist in a variety of formats!
To me, it starts at the top of the chain, then should filter down reasonably to a consumer friendly, set you up for successful outcome, not as a a setting you up for failure with unrealistic expectations.