The biggest realization I've had is to never get settled into choices especially when you have plenty of room to add. I thought mixing fairies was going to be much easier than its gone, it really sucks that a lot of the more colorful ones I like can be somewhat aggressive with others, loose their color or both.While I'll take risk if the information isn't fully concrete that's out there, but when you get told by someone that knows more than any other, you gotta listen.
Sorta feel like I'm back to square 1 except I know more flasher wrasses are a must. Maybe I'm too picky.