This is an interesting thread. I like the civil debate. I can see both sides. As a buyer, if something went wrong, and I lost all of it, I would be very peeved. As a seller, if UPS/Fedex messed it up, and I lost all of it, I would be very peeved.
Honestly, I have to side with the people saying the buyer should look at terms, and if they don't like them, don't buy from them. In the OP, it asks why we (as buyers) have let sellers get to these ridiculous (1 hour DOA?) policies. The answer, I think, is that they got to that point because we let them. Supply and demand is real. If a seller has no demand, because buyers stop buying from them due to their ridiculous policy, then the seller either A) must figure out why people aren't buying and change policy or B) go out of business.
If the buyers were to 'make a stand' and force sellers to change, then the policies like that would go away. However, that didn't happen (doesn't happen still?) and so sellers can sell with these policies in place.
Obviously, these are generalizations, and there are good buyers and good sellers who aren't as extreme as my post implies, but I think it helps illuminate the situation and why things are the way they are.
Honestly, I have to side with the people saying the buyer should look at terms, and if they don't like them, don't buy from them. In the OP, it asks why we (as buyers) have let sellers get to these ridiculous (1 hour DOA?) policies. The answer, I think, is that they got to that point because we let them. Supply and demand is real. If a seller has no demand, because buyers stop buying from them due to their ridiculous policy, then the seller either A) must figure out why people aren't buying and change policy or B) go out of business.
If the buyers were to 'make a stand' and force sellers to change, then the policies like that would go away. However, that didn't happen (doesn't happen still?) and so sellers can sell with these policies in place.
Obviously, these are generalizations, and there are good buyers and good sellers who aren't as extreme as my post implies, but I think it helps illuminate the situation and why things are the way they are.


