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I don't read for intent, I read for content.You have just proved my point and you have an opinion I can use moving forward " it's better to lose an argument against someone who knows what they're talking about than win one against someone who doesn't." Yes, I do like this quote as it applies. Thanks for the enlightenment. [emoji14]
The problem isn't being "highly opinionated" the problem is some people do not know how to accept another person's opinion. They are so invested in their way of doing things that the minute someone questions, disagrees or offers another way they get "upset" and lash out.
The thread about what you wish they wouldn't sell for SW aquariums. One guy posted LEDS and people wanted to know why. He basically said this is what I think no explanation needed. A few people wanted scientific data, where did he get off coming to his opinion, the would not let off.
You don't have to agree with someone's but by that same token a person does not have to justify their opinion either.
There are facts in this hobby and opinion and some people cannot distinguish between the two.
IMOI thank it is were you get the information like people you follow on youtube and your local FS you hold there opinion very highly there for you will argue the point because you got it from professionals and people you trustWhy are we so highly opinionated in our beliefs about this hobby. It seems like you can't mention your likes without someone vehemently disagreeing with you, and ready to take your head off. Maybe it's just me, but it seems like this past month or so I've seen strong debates about the following subjects:
LIGHTS - LED's versus T5's / Metal Halides
CHINA - If it's made in China, it's cheap
POWERHEADS - Gyre versus the rest of the world
SALTS - Mine is better than yours
AND MORE......
AND, do you put any weight into the believability of the responses because of who the poster might be (please, no specific names)?
Please only respond to why we are so strongly opinionated. If this thread turns into a debate about specifics of the above subjects, or specific members, I'm asking the [HASHTAG]#Mods[/HASHTAG] to shut it down immediately and move it out. Let's keep it civil!
Why are we so highly opinionated in our beliefs about this hobby. It seems like you can't mention your likes without someone vehemently disagreeing with you, and ready to take your head off. Maybe it's just me, but it seems like this past month or so I've seen strong debates about the following subjects:
LIGHTS - LED's versus T5's / Metal Halides
CHINA - If it's made in China, it's cheap
POWERHEADS - Gyre versus the rest of the world
SALTS - Mine is better than yours
AND MORE......
AND, do you put any weight into the believability of the responses because of who the poster might be (please, no specific names)?
Please only respond to why we are so strongly opinionated. If this thread turns into a debate about specifics of the above subjects, or specific members, I'm asking the [HASHTAG]#Mods[/HASHTAG] to shut it down immediately and move it out. Let's keep it civil!
Your correct LED will win for one reason Mercury in fluorescent and metal Halide here isba list from the Epa .Paul, peoplei have different views and experiences. Someone cares about certain features or parameters and has found it important to watch for that in their past experience. I try everything at least a few times and might then try it again a couple of years later. Its three strikes and your out for me. LED's I just started playing with used MH and T5 for years. So the jury is still out but in the long run LED will win by default I am afraid so I decided this year to learn how to use them. In aquarium forums we all have different experience levels and I have found that every tank can be different in how it reacts in chemistry biology and equipment. What works on one tank might not work on another tank. While we try to nail down what is needed to keep corals and fish happy there is always someone doing the complete opposite having great success. So there is never a 100% correct answer for what works.![]()
that's more of a pet-peeve - no?Got another one... Why do people reply with an ID for anything along with a picture justifying their ID and it is blatantly wrong?
For example,
Can someone ID this?
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Reply:
That's an asteroid.
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If you don't know, say it's a guess! Don't state something as a fact and then insist on a course of action based on your guess.

Maybe.that's more of a pet-peeve - no?
pet-peeve = something that a particular person finds especially annoying.

Great..... I laughed coffee all over my laptop.......
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.ok, we agree to disagreeI like my way better, turn it upside down and shake, pray it doesn't start to smell like curdled cream and ignore it until I can't.....
.Great..... I laughed coffee all over my laptop.......
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Looks like one of my Kidney stones ! Felt like the first picture though!Got another one... Why do people reply with an ID for anything along with a picture justifying their ID and it is blatantly wrong?
For example,
Can someone ID this?
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Reply:
That's an asteroid.
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If you don't know, say it's a guess! Don't state something as a fact and then insist on a course of action based on your guess.
TMI...SMHLooks like one of my Kidney stones ! Felt like the first picture though!

