Yeah, it's kinda a PITA to figure out what height works best for both drains. I think I made three different pieces, starting at 3" for the main drain, then made the next ones a 1/2" taller then the previous ones. Once you have a little flow coming out of the secondary drain, I mad micro adjustments to the gate valve (opening, not closing) until the bubbles cleared up. You have to give it a minute or so to settle before adjusting again. If you're still getting noise from above, then raise the stand pipes by a 1/2" (each) and see what that does? Good luck!